don't be my valentine

     so, i think valentine’s day is silly.  first the girls who live and die by this “holiday” are usually the ones who say valentimes.  that makes me want to stab them in the eye with a fork.  i’m not a violent person, but a girl has urges.  i have this crazy idea that we should be kind to each other everyday.  i think it’s gross to see people loving all over each other.  holding hands, kiss good bye or hello, that’s pushing it.  i think those people who mush all over each other are hiding something.  i don’t know if it’s that they don’t really do “IT” at all or maybe one of them is having an affair.  who knows, but it just aint right and it gives me the heebie geebies.  get a room for crying out old.  see, that stuff is private.  all that love and mush, that’s just for you and your “other”.  i remember the hubs asking me what i would have done if he had proposed to me in some public way.  you know, like on stage or at a ball game.  answer, “i would have said no, and waited for you to ask in a normal way.”  see valentine’s day is all about letting people know how happy you are together.  i really don’t care what people think about my relationship.  i know, i’ve said i’m not easy to be married to.  poor guy asked me the other night, “um we’re not getting anything for each other for valentine’s day right?”  my answer, “not if you want to stay married.” see thirteen years later and he still doesn’t know the rules.  

ah, life.  



4 responses to “don't be my valentine”

  1. JJ

    Oh how true! When you know something is true and real, you don’t need to prove it to the rest of the world. I’m with you.

  2. EH Shuba

    thanks miss judy!  

  3. Dushie

    first Adam Lambert and now the Valentime girls. the next time we are together, I am checking your purse for silverware.

  4. EH Shuba

    you better..i come packing 

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